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RSVP Today for the gala on February 25!

sinatra1We are very excited that during Lunar New Year 2017, we will be celebrating the music of Frank Sinatra.

Come fly with us as we celebrate this Asian holiday, in its 22nd year as a Dillon International tradition, with live entertainment.

The event will be February 25 and hosted by Southern Hills Country Club, 2636 E. 61st Street, Tulsa.

Cocktail attire.

Please use the registration form below and add guest names in the comments box.

Forever Family Campaign

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 “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.”
– African Proverb

We are excited to announce our new matching gift campaign for 2016. Eleven Dillon supporters, including our board of directors, have collectively pledged to support Dillon and make an even greater impact in the lives of children and families. From now until December 31, every dollar given to the campaign will be matched dollar for dollar–up to $228,000!

Every gift made to our Forever Family Campaign will assist Dillon in bringing more children home, making more families complete and providing post-adoption support to adoptees and their families.

When we all work together, we can create a lasting treasure for decades to come-the treasure of Family, Love, and Hope. Please consider doubling your gift today through the Forever Family Campaign.


Three children waiting

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We have just added three new children to our Waiting Child program.

One is from China and two are from Vietnam.

We hope you’ll read about them, and if you’re open to their needs, we would love to talk with you about the next steps.

Their medical needs vary, but one thing is for sure: Their primary need is a loving family to call their own.

If you’d like to review the full file of any of these children, please fill out our Family Information Form, which goes straight to our Waiting Child coordinator. She will be delighted to contact you.

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Date of Birth: February 2012

This little girl is described as active, extroverted and talkative. She likes to sing, listen to music, gets along well with others and has a ready smile.

She goes up and down stairs unassisted, imitates drawing vertical lines, knows several colors, recognizes shapes, knows left and right, asks “What is it?” and is able to put on clothes by herself.

She is listed as having a congenital anus malformation, congenital skull malformation, malformation on both thumbs, and Ametropia.

China guidelines

In general, to qualify for the China program, both heterosexual married couples and single women between 30 and 49 may apply. Marriage length of 2 years for first marriage or 4 1/2 years if either person has been married previously.

Parents should be in generally good physical, mental and emotional health.

If you would like to be considered for this child, please fill out this form, and our Waiting Child coordinator will be happy to talk with you.

Families from all 50 states may inquire.

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Date of Birth: January 2016

This sweet baby boy is on target developmentally and physically.

His medical diagnoses are a small head and reflux. His heart and abdomen are both normal.

He needs a family to love him to accept him and help him to reach his full potential as he grows into a healthy toddler. Could that family be yours?

Vietnam guidelines

In general, to qualify for the Vietnam program, both heterosexual married and single applicants between 25 and 55 may apply. Marriage length of 2 years for first marriage or 3 years if either person has been married previously.

Parents should be in generally good physical, mental and emotional health.

If you would like to be considered for this child, please fill out this form, and our Waiting Child coordinator will be happy to talk with you.

Families from all 50 states may inquire.

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Date of Birth: March 2013

This sweet toddler needs a family that can attend to her medical needs.

She can walk, talk, sing songs and imitate those around her.

Her primary diagnosis is an arachnoid cyst in her brain.

She needs a family committed to helping her reach her full potenital and willing to love her unconditionally.

Could that family be yours?

Vietnam guidelines

In general, to qualify for the Vietnam program, both heterosexual married and single applicants between 25 and 55 may apply. Marriage length of 2 years for first marriage or 3 years if either person has been married previously.

Parents should be in generally good physical, mental and emotional health.

If you would like to be considered for this child, please fill out this form, and our Waiting Child coordinator will be happy to talk with you.

Families from all 50 states may inquire.

If you would like to be considered for one of these children, please fill out the following form, and our Waiting Child coordinator will be happy to talk with you. Please note on the form the child’s ID number.

Good news in Haiti!

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Haiti’s central adoption authority, the IBESR, recently released the list of agencies that have been accredited to process adoptions in Haiti for the accreditation period of 2016 to 2018.

Dillon International is thrilled to be re-accredited so that we can continue serving children and families in this wonderful program.

Dillon International began placing Haitian children with U.S. families in 1991.

Children Eligible for Adoption from this Program:

  • Boys and girls ages 2 years and older

Parents’ Ages

  • 30–50 years of age for heterosexual married couples.
  • One parent may be as young as 25 as long as the spouse is between 30 and 50.
  • No more than 15 years between spouses.
  • Single heterosexual women 35-50

No arrest histories allowed.

Length of Marriage

  • Couples married at least 4.5 years for both first and/or second marriages.

Children in Family Prior to Adoption

  • No more than 5 children
Learn more about the Haiti program
Read a blog by a Dillon Haiti mom

 

Catholic families needed

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We have received the files of several children from Vietnam who live in Catholic orphanages.

The centers have specifically asked us to look for Catholic families only for these children.

The children are generally in good health, are active and attend school. One wants to be a pilot. Another wants to be a priest. Another wants to be a teacher. Above all else, they dream of loving families.

Are you a Catholic family who is considering adoption? If so, we would love to talk with you!

In addition to the children in the Catholic orphanages, we are looking for a family for an 11-year-old girl who wants to be a doctor, a toddler who will be 3 next month, and a 5-year-old girl who is deaf. These children are not in Catholic orphanages, and the family’s religion is not a factor.

In general, to qualify for the Vietnam program, both heterosexual married and single applicants between 25 and 55 may apply. Marriage length of 2 years for first marriage or 3 years if either person has been married previously.

Single men may adopt a boy only.

Parents should be in generally good physical, mental and emotional health.

Families from all 50 states may inquire.

To meet the children in our Waiting Child program, click here to receive the user name and password.
If you already have the user name and password, please click here to meet the children.

On each child’s page, there is a form to fill out for families who would like to view the child’s medical and social file. The form goes to our Waiting Child coordinator, who will be glad to contact you.

To contact the Waiting Child coordinator directly with questions, please email nellie@dillonadopt.com or call (918) 748-5619.

Home Study Agencies

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Click on the map for an easy way to find a home study preparer in your state
We’ve created this clickable map so that you’ll have a place to start when searching for a home study agency. This is not a list of every agency, but these are a few that our families have used in the past.

Dillon offers home studies in California, Oklahoma, Texas, Missouri, Kansas and Arkansas. If you live in a state where we are not licensed, this means that Dillon can be your placing agency, but you’ll be working with a local agency to prepare your home study, which then will be submitted to Dillon.

Please do not start your home study until:

  • your home study provider has entered into an agreement with Dillon
  • and your home study application has been approved by Dillon International

Mission trip to Korea

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Dillon Korea tour coordinator,
Dukkyung Um
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Saturday, Oct. 22
Depart for Seoul

Sunday, Oct. 23
Arrive at Incheon airport
Check in at hotel
Brief orientation
Rest/group welcome dinner

Monday, Oct. 24
Visit Eastern Welfare Town in Pyeongtaek
Harvest pears for children of Eastern Welfare Town
Group lunch
Spend time with children at Jacob’s Home
Dinner

Tuesday, Oct. 25
Visit Eastern Social Welfare Society
Tour Eastern office, Babies Home
Group lunch with Eastern staff
Meet with foster families, file reviews
Hold babies at Eastern Babies Home
Cook for single mothers and children at Sangmyungnuri Shelter
Group dinner

Wednesday, Oct. 26
Prepare lunch box and deliver to seniors living alone
Spend time with children at daycare center at Sodaemun Community Center
Group lunch
Teach English to children at after-school program
Nanta Performance
Dinner

Thursday, Oct. 27
Trip to Seoraksan Mountain
Lunch
Tour and hiking at mountain
Check-in at hotel
Group dinner

Friday, Oct. 28
Visit fish market and ocean port on the Eastern coast
Group lunch
Travel back to Seoul by bus
Dinner

Saturday, Oct. 29
Holding babies at Eastern Babies Home
Lunch
Spend time with children at group home for elementary-aged children at Gwangmyeong, Gyeonggi-do
Group dinner

Sunday, Oct. 30
Attend church service (optional)
Lunch
Tour Seoul Tower
Tour of Gyeongbokgung Palace with local students
Insadong tour
Group dinner

Monday, Oct. 31
Service work at Saerongi Saenami Shelter maternity home for single mothers
Lunch
Spend time serving North Korean refugee college students
Group dinner

Tuesday, Nov. 1
Free day
Farewell dinner

Wednesday, Nov. 2
Depart for U.S.

Contact us to reserve your spot

We hope you will join us for a trip of a lifetime, both serving the children, mothers and students in Korea and enjoying the sights of this beautiful land.

 

Adoptees, adoptive families and anyone interested in serving the people of Korea will koreaserve2not want to miss this Sharing Hearts Mission Trip.

We will be serving babies, children and adults at Eastern Social Welfare Society’s facilities.

You’ll have a great time teaching English and songs to children and deliving lunch to senior citizens.

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Every Dillon trip features small group size for more individualized attention and staff with adoption sensitivity.

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For questions, email us or call 918-749-4600.

 

Adoption Guide

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ad guide iconIf you’re considering adoption, the Adoption Guide is the place to start.

It contains country program information, family requirements and our agency policies. The latest version has just been uploaded, so we hope you’ll find the answers to many of your questions.

Also, we encourage anyone thinking about adoption to attend one of our one-hour webinars.

 

The joy of boys

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“And now,” cried Max, “let the wild rumpus start,” Maurice Sendak, Where the Wild Things Are

Brother ProudI often feel like this is the cry from my two wild things when we hit the back door each evening upon arriving home from work and school.

Yes, it can be wild. After all, there are Legos to build, a world that can only be saved by the heroics of superheroes, and stuffed animals who need to be cared for in the imaginary pouch of a kangaroo (otherwise known as a pillowcase).

There is always a wild rumpus at our house and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

They are as tender as they are wild. I love to hear them say, “I love you Mommy!” and see them running to me with open arms for every scrape and booboo.

Oh, how my heart melts every time my youngest brings me “flowers” from the yard for my “wedding.”

Seriously, is there anything cuter than a little guy in his Cub Scout or soccer uniform?

I just might be “that Mom” who cheers the loudest while watching my son’s Pinewood Derby car cross the finish line.

Saturday morning soccer games and hot summer days spent at the baseball field all come with the territory with boys.

I am constantly amazed at their curiosity and passion. We have the best time exploring wherever their latest curiosity and passion take us. Be it superheroes, trains, race cars or loud music, it all brings fun.

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Don’t even get me started on the joy of brothers. Seeing them cuddled on the couch taking in their favorite cartoon or hearing them giggle in sheer delight at the latest adventure they are exploring makes me so happy that they have each other to share life with. Really, there is no buddy like a brother.

I love being a boy mom!

Every boy deserves to have a family who will nurture his “wild side.”

An extraordinary privilege

However, many boys who find themselves orphaned spend lots of time on a waiting child list in an orphanage or foster care just because of the simple fact that they are a boy.

Around the world, being orphaned and being born a boy is one of the most difficult hurdles to cross when it comes to a child finding a forever family.

On a list of waiting children, often times the girls are chosen first while the boys continue to wait.

Theories abound as to why this is true. Maybe girls are perceived as sweeter-natured than boys, making them somehow easier to raise.

Or maybe mothers have dreams of frills and princesses.

Whatever the case may be, as a general rule, girls are preferred.

Although the thought sometimes overwhelms me, I consider raising the next generation of husbands, fathers and leaders to be an extraordinary privilege.

Right now, there are boys who wait and pray for a family to call their own. Would you open your heart and consider if you are the answer to their prayer?

Emily Williams, Dillon Korea Mom to two awesome boys

Want to learn more about adoption? Join us for the next adoption webinar!

Coaching

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Dillon has just launched a new Coaching program as part of our Clinical Services.

Many parents want some extra tools to help them help their child with better discipline, routines or boundaries.

Whatever your situation, Dillon International’s coaching program may be able to help. We can even help a family before their adopted child comes home to prepare to meet that child’s individual needs.

As part of our Lifetime Support Services department, coaching is independent from our adoption program. All client coaching is 100 percent confidential, and your sessions will never be shared with your adoption caseworker.

Coaching can be done online or over the phone, with the participant and coach meeting weekly or episodically for a varying number of sessions depending on the situation. Coaching is open to any adoptive parent or any adult adoptee, regardless of the adoption agency and regardless of whether the adoption was international, domestic or through foster care.

What’s the difference between Coaching and Counseling?
  • Coaching is about achievement; therapy is about healing.
  • Coaching is about action; therapy is about understanding thoughts and behaviors.
  • Coaching is about transformation; therapy is about functioning.
  • Coaching is about momentum; therapy is about safety.
  • Coaching is about intuition; therapy is about feelings.
  • Coaching is about joy and fulfillment; therapy is about moving towards happiness.
  • Coaching is about performance; therapy is about progressing.
  • Coaching is about synchronicity; therapy is about timing.
  • Coaching is about attraction; therapy is about protecting.
  • Coaching is about creating; therapy is about resolving.
Meet the lead coach

Jynger Roberts is a master’s level social worker and has worked at Dillon International for 15 years.

She is on the credentialing path of the Institute for Life Coach Training and is working toward certification by the International Coach Federation. In her personal life, she is the mother of three children, including a daughter who was adopted internationally.

As a coach, she loves to help families set goals, reach them and build momentum for future success.

Dillon also offers a free 15-minute phone assessment to determine whether you’d be best served through coaching or counseling.

To set up a free assessment, please fill out the form below.

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